Yeah. You heard me. - I'm single and have been since before my first breath. That's my confession. Though it's not much of a confession as everyone who knows me knows exactly what my marital status is.
I won't bother going into the list of why's for this continued stratum.
However, one of the big one's hit me between the eyes the other day. It came from the lips of a woman for whom I do some part time work. Let me just note that I know that she is a good woman who does care about people and is working at helping out a couple of churches in various ways that the Lord has gifted her.
But she said one of the subversive lies that slithers through much of the Church today.
We were outside in front of one of her homes looking over her small flower garden in bloom. Across the street we watched the rocking masts of boats docked in the marina.
She's one of the women in my life who sees my singleness as something to fix. I'm not saying that's a bad thing mind you. And frankly she's been very tactful and less matchmaker-like then others who have taken up that campaign.
But she said to me, "Wouldn't this be a great place to have your honeymoon, Hal?"
It came out of nowhere. Kind of like the bait a fisherman drops down in front an unsuspecting snook.
I said with a laugh something rather self-pitting-like, "Well, that's seems increasingly unlikely as I've struck out on my previous attempts of pursuit."
Yeah, pretty sorry I know. But I had almost arrived at the point of full acceptance that my life was not going to be a two-some adventure. Or rather, I was almost back to my acceptance campsite from years earlier were set up my tent. I wandered away from it after coming across some tracks outside my tent flap that I saw as being worthy of pursuit.
Stop.
I really don't intend this to be a post about myself. But I suppose it is because I'm part of the Church and this is what I see from my vantage point.
Anyway. After my comment she said, and I paraphrase, "Well, you know it's usually the second marriages that are the best anyway."
That comment struck me between the eyes.
My answer, "If my second marriage is going to be the best, I won't be getting married at all! Because 'IF' I marry it will be for life."
Is that naive?
The world says it is and the world has infected the Church with this poison. Furthermore, the Church allowed this to happen.
Christians, would Christ Jesus divorce you?
Christians, will you divorce Christ Jesus?
Do you not know that marriage is more than a metaphor for the relationship that Christ has with the Church? It is a living example to the world!
Why do we Christians abide this poison? Why do we continue to live like we are still dead?
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